I’m so fortunate to be contacted by clients on a regular basis. Although I have the experience to navigate a call no matter how it is initiated, many providers are less experienced, and many are not as patient. What you say in that first call or text can determine if and how a provider responds. Simply texting “Hello” or “Are you available?” is the least likely way to get a response. It is vague and difficult to respond to effectively. Here is how you get providers to respond positively and schedule an appointment
~Introduce Yourself
Start by telling her your name. Frankly, it doesn’t have to be your real name. She isn’t using her real name, you don’t necessary have to either if you wish to remain anonymous. Some providers require a photo of your ID. To me, this is asking way to much and you shouldn’t do it, but if she does ask and you want to do it, let her know the name you gave is one that you use for hobbying and tell her your real one. Most girls don’t ask for this, so whatever name you give is acceptable. Use the same name for all providers in case you need a reference.
Introducing yourself will make you seem more serious and also allow her to easily add you to her schedule. It’s also the polite thing to do.
~Tell Her Where You Saw Her Ad
After asking a clients name, this is always my next question. This is because some girls have different information on different ads, particularly pricing. Telling her where you saw her is lets her know what information you are responding to.
~Give Her Information About Your Desired Appointment
Just asking “Are you available?” can turn some girls off. It requires a lot of follow-up questions. Ask her if she is available for incall or outcall, whichever you prefer, at a specific date and time. If you desire outcall, let her know the general area.
Your Ideal introduction…
Should look like this “Hello, my name is__. I saw your ad on___. Are you available for an incall/outcall to___ on (date) at (time)?” Super simple right? This saves so much time and back and forth.
If your girl requires references, provide that information as well and please reach out to your references and let them know you are using them! Ladies call me often for references and I have no idea who they are talking about. I don’t save every clients number and even if I don’t know you guys by your name and number. Give your reference a heads up. Let her know who you are so she is prepared when your provider reaches out to her.
Final though
I am not trying to tell anyone what to do or how to do it. I am just providing some information that can make contacting your escort easy and most likely get a positive response. We are on constant alert for time-wasters and will stop corresponding the moment we sense you are one. It’s ok to ask questions and it’s ok not to be 100% sure you want to see the lady you are calling, but keep in mind that the goal of the conversation is to set an appointment.
As I said in my “How to Choose the Right Girl” post, you can tell a lot about a girl by how she responds to what you say. You really should be saying the right things though. You can’t blame even the best providers for negative responses if you are not calling her for the right reason. She knows almost immediately when you are full of shit (at least I do). The best you can do is to be a good quality client from start to finish. I will end by saying that I appreciate that so many of you do just that.