Types of providers

A field guide to the different types of providers — high-end, low-end, career, new, traveling, GFE, PSE, dominatrix, UTR and more — what sets each apart and where to find them, so you know what to look for and which girl to pick.

Although we are all beautiful and unique snowflakes that should be treated as such most providers fall into a specific category. This is our way of deciding our advertising style, the types of clients we get and how successful we want to be in this business. Knowing which type of provider suits you can help you decide what to look for and where and which girl to pick.

I, along with many other successful providers, fall into multiple categories so that we can attract a variety of clients. Here are some of the different types of providers and where to find them.

~High End Providers/Glam Providers/Celebrity Providers (usually porn stars and OF models)

These are the providers that charge $500+/hr for their time. Celebrity providers charge around $1000. Typically, they will have model like photos, some professional, some self-taken, all quite beautiful. Some are young and charge for beauty, some are older (but still hot) and charge for experience. They are appealing to clients that believe more expensive things are inherently better. They tend to be lower volume but have the quality clients to compensate. The most successful of these providers are the ones that have passion and personality in addition to looks. Just be sure to verify that your HDH (High Dollar Hottie) is the real deal by googling her number or checking her reviews.

Find these ladies on http://eros.com or https://tryst.link. Find reviews on http://theeroticreview.com

~Low End Providers

These are ladies that charge anywhere from 50-150 for service. In many cases you get what you pay for but there are some gems among the lower end providers. These ladies tend to work out of hotels and be higher volume so there is a little more risk involved. You don’t know how many calls she has done before you or if the hotel has caught on and is ready to either kick her out or call the cops. Also the police tend to conduct stings on the sites these ladies advertise on. While it is a little riskier to see one of these providers, they can be a good choice for those on a budget. Again, google her number and look for reviews. Find these ladies on http://listcrawler.eu and http://bedpage.com

~Career Providers

Career providers are ladies that have been in the business for several (usually 10+ years). They tend to be a little older, late 30s to early 50s, and their years of experience in the business should make the whole experience easier and more pleasant. These are the providers I recommend for newbies. Many are quite beautiful and have worked hard to maintain their looks. Many others have not. You typically will not know if a provider is a career provider just by viewing a profile. These ladies will have lots of reviews dating back several years and they should be able to link you to them on their profile (unless you are using Eros, which doesn’t allow for external links). If not googling her number should pull up an extensive list of ads and websites she is featured on. Career providers should be on almost every website. http://preferred411.com and http://eccie.net have both been around for many years and both show when your provider joined on their bio.

~New Providers

These are the girls that are posting on Welcome boards. Most of their marketing and advertising will center around them being new, as many see this as an advantage. It is. A lot of guys are wanting to see “fresh” new girls. The drawback to seeing new girls is that you don’t know what you are going to get. She could be great. She could have decided that she doesn’t like it, but her and her boyfriend can rob tricks easily to make a few bucks before people catch on. Your call might be the call that turns her off to the business, through no fault of your own, and you will have wasted your valuable time going to see her only to be rejected.

New providers also lack the TCB (taking care of business) skills it takes to make scheduling, travel, and the actual session smooth and easy. They are still trying to figure things out and they may be working for a pimp or lazy boyfriend. Guys will always want to see new girls but proceed with caution and, if possible, wait for her to get a review or two before you call.

http://eccie.net, http://ourhome2.net and https://theotherboard.com have welcome pages where new girls post.

~Traveling Providers

This is a provider that gets most of her business from different places than where she lives. It is a lot of work. Coordinating appointments in different cities is not easy. Also, it is expensive to travel and we independents pay for all travel expenses out of our own pocket. In order for a trip to truly be considered a success, she has to make enough to cover expenses and more than she would have made at her home location. From my experience, the success rate for tours is not high. However, I like to enjoy nice accommodations, good food and explore the cities I visit. That means high expenses, but a great trip, which to me makes it worth it. I consider it a free vacation.

When we had backpage, it was almost impossible not to make money in whatever city we wanted to go to. The websites we have now don’t get anywhere near the traffic backpage got. That means lower volume at higher rates. Be sure to do your homework on a traveling provider. Googling her number should yield pages of ads in different cities. I love to travel, although most of my business comes from home and I only travel every few months so I am a provider that travels, not a traveling provider. Most girls will advertise on http://eros.com and http://tyrst.link. Many can also be found on local boards like http://ourhome2.net (Mostly Texas, but other places are active as well) and http://theotherboard.com (Mostly West Coast)

~GFE Providers

Most providers advertise that they offer GFE services. Some providers are exclusively GFE providers. These are providers that lead with warmth and affection and attempt to make the experience feel as close to spending an evening with your dream girlfriend as possible. An experienced GFE provider will make your time together unforgettable and leave you wondering if you actually have a shot with her. Spoiler alert-you don’t. It’s a performance on her part, but many are quite good at it so get caught up in the experience and get as much pleasure from it as you can.

~Dominatrix Providers

Some of you guys are looking for a different kind of experience. You get off on punishment, pain, and/or humiliation. For this you need a dominatrix. She is a professional at inflicting sexual pain and using her words to degrade you. This is often a non-sexual relationship based on the clients need to relinquish control over their lives and bodies to someone else for a period of time.

~Financial Dommes

I never really understood this one and I have had some guys ask if I was interested but when I told them to send me some money, they didn’t. They say they want to give up control of their finances and give everything they have to their domme. I’m sure it has happens. I’m just not sure how. If anyone wants to explain to me how you want it done, I will gladly financially dominate you!

~Street Based Providers

Yes, there are still street based providers. They usually work in a small section of a big city, but they can range from the girl charging $20 on Harry Hines to the girl charging $500 at the bar at the Ritz. These providers almost always have pimps so be aware that, if you pick up a street worker, you are not paying her, you are paying a man you will never see. It is hard to be a street based worker (I imagine) and I believe more should be done to connect them with resources that can help get them out of that situation. Every life matters and we all deserve to be free to choose what we do with it. Street based sex work is dangerous for both the client and the provider so avoid it if you can.

~PSE Providers

PSE means different things to different providers. For some it involves more activities like Greek, CIM, CW, COF. If you don’t know what those things mean, go to https://tryst.link/blog/escort-terms-owo-fbsm-bbbj/ for the full list of hobby terms. PSE stands for Porn-Star Experience, so its always going to be wilder and freakier than GFE. It isn’t this type of providers job to talk to you about the things troubling you at the moment or anything else. This isn’t a soft, tender GFE date. This date is all about hardcore porno style fucking. You should both be sweating at the end.

Most providers are not exclusively PSE providers, like GFE ladies. For many, this is a costly addition and with good reason. If we wanted to do PSE all the time, we would have gotten into porn. For me, this is a fun experience for a client to try once, or every once in a while. It’s a special session to be remembered forever.

~UTR Providers

UTR or Under the Radar Providers are ones that typically don’t advertise and rely on their regulars for their income. If they do advertise, it’s usually infrequently with pics that don’t show face or identifying marks. Many will frequent bars and other social settings to pick up new clients discretely.

I personally don’t understand this business model because regulars come and go at their leisure. There is nothing making them come back except that they want to, until they don’t want to anymore. It isn’t wise not to take on new clients. We replace old regulars with new ones. Either be in the game or don’t, but the UTR model works for women that have other jobs or families.

They are rare treasures so if you come across one, first do a review and phone number check. If she is smart she will have a few reviews for legitimacy.

Summary

There is a type of provider to fit every need. If your needs are a little different, get with provides that would most likely offer that service. Discuss your expectations with her to see if it is something they offer. I would say try them all but, but try me first!