Although many of us get into sex work because we think it will be easy money, the quality girls soon learn that we (as independents) have to wear a lot of different hats including: marketing/advertising, media production, booking, customer service, and driver. All that is in addition to our responsibilities like maintaining a good appearance and clean, safe incall location. It’s not as easy as selling sex. I always said that when a client knocks on my door, my work is done.
There are many providers out there that have mastered all of the skills above and take care of all of their responsibilities. There are many more that have not. This is a business full of bad actors, scammers, and half-steppers. The tips below are designed for you, the client, to gain an increased ability to spot the good providers and avoid the bad ones. In my experience, your decision to see a provider is a much bigger risk to you than it is to her. That’s why it is your responsibility to be smart and careful. I know you are doing most of the thinking with your d*(k, but when it comes to your money and your safety, let your brain in for a moment during your selection process.
~Do Your Homework
If you see a woman on Tryst or Eros or anywhere that you are interested in google her phone number. Google mine. I just changed it so it won’t show as much as my old one, but something will come up. Real escorts advertise in more than one location. You can also find many on social media, particularly Twitter. If nothing pops up, call at your own risk.
~Look At Her Advertising
Does it look like she put some thought and effort into it? Does it tell you what you need to know? Are the pictures flattering and pretty? Eros is great for me, but for you guys it’s weird because there is an option to have no bio at all on your ad. Just a pretty picture and a phone number. I would want to get a feel for a lady’s personality before I call her. On other sights, read her bio. Is it informative and inviting or a cold list of rules and restrictions. Boundaries are important, but if a girl has a long list of no’s or will only see a certain type of client, she is no fun.
~Listen For The “Hello”
I know we barely call each other anymore, but it’s a similar concept through text. If you call, does she answer with a cheerful “Hello” or does she sound like you are bothering her? In text, is she quick to respond with a positive tone? I’m not saying to expect an immediate response. Even the best of us get busy and miss a text, but does she get back to you? Does she act like she wants your business? The initial conversation is a strong indicator of how your experience will be with her.
~Don’t Do Deposits
Ok, the exception is when you want an outcall that is further than say 40 miles away or you are booking overnight. If a girl asks for a deposit for an incall or an outcall to Plano, she probably just wants that little bit of money and will ghost you. I understand the reasoning behind deposits but good providers know how to target advertising to attract trustworthy clientele that will be where they say they will. A deposit isn’t necessary. You will show because you want to see us.
~Trust Your Instincts
If you contact a lady and the conversation feels off or impersonal, or you hear a lot of people in the background, or she wants an excessive amount of information, or anything strikes you as odd, don’t ignore it. When done right, an experience with an experience with an escort can be incredible but there is a lot of danger on both sides. In my opinion, it’s more dangerous for you than it is for us. There are some wild women out there with wild friends that get wild ideas. I know part of the appeal is the sense of danger, but you don’t want any actual danger. Be smart and have fun!
