An overnight is expensive treat for anyone. It can run you anywhere from $500 to $5,000 to spend the night with a provider. Ideally, the girl you chose for this will understand the assignment and bring her A game. I don’t recommend doing an overnight with someone you have never met (although I will do them, so call me!). It’s really risky and 8-12 hours can feel like a long time on both sides. Here are a few things you should know and can do to get the most out of that time.
~Plan
There is a big difference between spending the whole night with someone and the rest of a night with someone. If you are calling someone (hopefully me, don’t pay attention to what I said earlier) at 1:30 am and you have to start getting ready for work at 7:00, you don’t need much of a plan. You are an easy call. However, if you want to do a whole night with someone, starting at say 7:00pm, you need to have a plan. It’s best if that plan involves food. Any call longer than 6 hours should have food at some point. The last thing you want to deal with is a hungry hooker. Make reservations somewhere. Find out what kind of food she likes and book the best one of those you can find. If she is coming to you, clean up your space. If you don’t want to clean up, spring for a hotel room. If you don’t want to clean up or go out, spring for a hotel with room service.
On an overnight I had that I will never forget, my date for the evening got us ticket to Medieval Times! Then some lingerie shopping and back to room for fun. I was in a fantastic mood because it was a really fun night, so I made the rest of the night unforgettable for him. Due to some innovative planning on his part, he had an amazing overnight experience as did I.
This is a special night (hopefully for both of you) and, like all special things, it takes thought and prep. You don’t just show up and expect things to happen. You make them happen. A clean space and food may seem like small things, but they will make all the difference.
~Add Some Razzle Dazzle
Us ladies love to feel spoiled, like we are with someone that treats us right, even if it is only for a night. A small gift, flowers, or dinner at a fancy restaurant adds a thrill to the evening and makes it special. A small, but nice, piece of jewelry gives her something to remember you by. Something pretty and shiny is guaranteed to put a smile on your girls face
~Get Everything You Want
If you want to be intimate 5 times during your overnight, don’t be afraid to tell her. If you want to see a movie or to go dancing or bowling, by all means do it. Let her know what you expect from her for your overnight. How else will she know? The last thing either one of you want is for you to end the appointment disappointed.
~Embrace the Differences
The odds are that you and your chosen provider live two very different lives. She probably didn’t grow up with money, probably didn’t go to college, doesn’t work a typical job, and generally doesn’t have many of the same interests as you. That doesn’t apply to everyone, hell most of it doesn’t apply to me, but…odds are. Understand this and listen to her and have empathy. Ask questions. She will not reveal all of herself to you (hopefully she won’t reveal all of that much), but embrace and enjoy what she does open up about. She will likely teach you an important lesson about something that you will never forget.







